21 Easy Ways to Meet People as a Solo Traveller

Are you travelling alone for the first time and wondering how you will meet people as a solo traveller?

We know that solo travel is liberating and has the power to transform your life. But after a while, you can get a little tired of your own company, are fed up with eating out alone and long to have someone to share experiences with.

Meeting other people, be they fellow travellers or locals, means that you do not have to be alone all the time. But it goes deeper than that. The connections you make when travelling have the potential to change the way you view the world and lasting friendships can arise from these chance encounters.

With over three decades of solo travel under my belt, this is where I can help you. Read on for my tried and tested tips on how to make friends travelling alone.

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1. Be open and friendly

One of the joys of travelling is that you will come across people from all walks of life and from all corners of the globe. Be open to these encounters and reach out to these people.

Just because that person striking up a conversation with you is 20 years your senior, this doesn’t mean that you won’t be able to find common ground.

As a midlife solo traveller, even after three decades of travelling alone, people still have the ability to surprise me, mostly in a good way. Everyone has a story; just give them a chance to share it.

I recognise that talking to strangers may not be easy. But if I can do it as an introvert, so can you.

Lisa, a good friend and fellow solo traveller, shared this piece of advice and an anecdote:

A good conversation opener is to pay someone a compliment…. I love your hat/scarf/colour nail polish! Whilst on boat trip in Costa Rica someone said to me ‘I love your perfume. What is it?’ It was my insect repellant! We did laugh and chatted all day as a result.

2 women talking with mobile phone

What’s the worst that can happen?

The other person may not be receptive, but for all you know, they could be having a rough day and may just want to be left alone.

Or they might ignore you or turn out to be rude or self-absorbed. In that case, remember it’s not you, it’s them.

You are not invested in that person’s opinion of you, and you can pat yourself on the back for having the guts to approach them. For the odd occasion when this doesn’t work, there will be many more instances where you will meet like-minded people with whom you can forge a genuine connection.

2. Take an interest in people

Most people love to talk about themselves. Although this may sound manipulative, you can use this to your advantage.

Avoid closed questions that simply require a Yes / No response. Instead, throw lots of open questions into the conversation. For example:

  • How long are you travelling for?
  • What has been your favourite place so far?
  • What do you think of the food here?

You get the idea.

3. Offer to take a picture

This is a strategy that has worked for me in the past.

All solo travellers know that it can be tricky to capture an image of yourself next to that iconic landmark. It’s easy to spot those travelling alone as these are often the people struggling to take a selfie.

Help them out and offer to take a picture for them. From there, you might be able to strike up a conversation with them which might lead to you having a travel buddy, even if this is just for a few hours or so.

4. Be open to opportunities

Sticking to an itinerary is sometimes necessary, but may not be your friend when it comes to meeting other solo travellers.

More than once in my life, I’ve taken up random offers from both fellow travellers and locals and had an absolute blast. Like celebrating Australia in an apartment overlooking Sydney Harbour. Or travelling through Cuba with a couple of gals I met on a group tour.

These experiences would have been impossible if my plans were set in stone.

5. Stay in hostels

Staying in a hostel is one of the easiest ways to meet fellow travellers.

Most hostels have shared spaces, including bars and communal dining areas, that are ideal for making friends. Additionally, many hostels run events or day trips.

Until my early thirties, a dorm bed in a hostel was my accommodation of choice. Through those stays, I connected with other great solo travellers, some of whom remain friends to this day.

Whipping up a gourmet meal in a Jerusalem hostel, 1989
Kay & Derryl whipping up a gourmet meal in a Jerusalem hostel, 1989

But as I grew older, I eschewed hostels for hotels, moving from backpacker to flashpacker.

However, as private rooms are now the norm for hostels, this can offer the best of both worlds, combining privacy with the opportunity to meet people.

If you are thinking of staying in a hostel make sure that you do your homework first.

Based on real travellers’ reviews, Hostelworld rates hostels across the globe on location, staff and cleanliness. 

6. Stay with a local host

Although hostels are great places to meet people while travelling alone, they don’t provide many opportunities to mix with locals. One way to gain a deeper appreciation and understanding of your destination is to stay with a local host.

When I visited Lebanon in 2009, I stayed with Mirna. Through chats on the sofa of her beautifully restored apartment in downtown Beirut, I learnt more about her city, its history and Lebanese culture than I ever could have gleaned from a guidebook.

two women talking on promenade at sunset
Beirut’s Corniche

I would not have traded that experience for a stay at The Four Seasons if you had paid me.

But, again, do your homework and review the description of the property and reviews of the host before committing.

7. Meet people on public transport

As solo travellers we all need to get from A to B and trains, buses and planes are great places to meet people.

In 2009 I shared a compartment on a sleeper train from Bangkok to Chang Mai with a Russian ballerina with whom I performed a temple-hopping pas de deux on arrival.

More recently, I shared a table on the Glacier Express with a delightful trio: a South Korean couple and a Swiss lady. The eight-hour journey flew by as we chatted and exchanged stories.

group of 4 people sitting around table on the glacier express switzerland

8. Use social media to meet people while travelling alone

Why not use solo travel as an opportunity to turn your virtual friends into real friends?

Reach out to those that you follow on social media and who live in the destination that you are travelling to. Or if you spot someone else heading to the same place at the same time think about trying to hook up with them.

If you are feeling particularly brave, you can cold call people. Search a place by its hashtag and reach out to other travellers posting from there.

9. Use your Facebook account

One of the best things about Facebook is that it allows me to keep in loose contact with people I have met whilst travelling with minimal effort. If you are heading to that person’s hometown it is easy to reach out to them with a view to getting together.

Similar to other social media channels, posting an update to let others know what you are up to might result in a response from another traveller to that place. However, your privacy settings will need to accommodate this.

Facebook groups are another way to meet locals with similar interests. For example, a search for Facebook groups for foodies in London generated close to 100 results.

A sample of Facebook groups for foodies in London

10. Use apps for solo travellers

The growing market for apps dedicated to meeting fellow travellers is a sign of our connected times.

Backpackr – a bit like Tinder for those travelling alone.

Browse the profiles of other solo travellers and message those you would like to meet.  It also has a ‘common room’ in which to post those burning travel questions.

A great feature for solo female travellers is that it allows you to configure your settings so that only other female travellers can contact you. Maybe not so much like Tinder after all.

Tourlina – Going one step further, Tourlina is an app solely for female travellers.

Enter your dates and destination it will search for other women who are travelling alone. You can also specify the age of your potential travel buddy in your profile settings.

11. Take a small group tour

When travelling alone, don’t feel that you have to do everything independently.  One of the growing trends in solo travel is the growth in the popularity of small-group tours.

A small group tour can be convenient, time-efficient and provides you with ready-made travelling companions for the duration.

I have been on a dozen or so small group tours over the last 16 years, largely with Explore! and Exodus Travels, and have formed some lasting friendships with other travellers on these trips.

An early group tour in Jordan (2005). I’m the rather worried-looking individual at the front!

However, not all group tours are created equal. Do your homework to identify your perfect group tour and the best group travel company to suit your needs.

Group travel requires tolerance, and when you travel with a group there may be someone with whom you wouldn’t choose to spend time under different circumstances. Just make sure that pain in the neck isn’t you!

12. Go on a day tour

But you don’t have to take a lengthy group tour to meet people while travelling alone.

Why not sign up for a day tour? Most cities will offer a walking tour, which may be free and will only last two or three hours at most. During a lull in the guide’s commentary, chat with the person next to you.

When I visited Syria in 2007 as a solo traveller, I hooked up with Agwa on a day trip to Krak des Chevaliers out of Aleppo.

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With Agwa at Krak des Chevaliers, Syria

13. Indulge in your favourite activity with others

Perhaps you are an avid photographer or a keen walker? Then why not indulge your passion whilst travelling alone and meet people at the same time?

Meetup is an online tool listing events that cater to a vast range of interests. Type in your interest in the search engine and pick your event.

14. Meet other travellers by taking a class

Instead of indulging your passion, why not learn a new skill?

And that’s even better if it is something related to that region.

Channel your inner Riverdancer and learn how to jig. Create the perfect ragù sauce in Tuscany. Or fashion the finest spring roll in Vietnam.

cookery class spring roll ingredients
Ingredients at the ready for a spring roll – Cookery class, Vietnam

It’s a win-win situation. You get to try something different and will meet fellow travellers.

15. Go on a pub crawl /night event

If I’m honest, this is probably no longer for me and is a tip aimed at younger solo travellers.

But if you are up for it, organised pub crawls are on offer in many cities. In my home city of London, where pub culture is ingrained, there is a myriad of opportunities to get well and truly bladdered over the course of an evening.

Alcohol is a highly effective social lubricant, loosening the most static tongues.

Just drink responsibly, especially you solo female travellers out there. It’s sad to say that women travelling alone have to be particularly mindful of their personal safety.

A good night out doesn’t necessarily need to involve boozing into oblivion. Like many travellers to Cuba, I attended a riotously good salsa evening in Trinidad.

More recently, I joined a superb beer tour when I was visiting Ghent. It was a fun night and I learnt so much about Belgian beer.

a group of people sitting around a table with beer in ghent belgium
Beer tasting in Ghent, Belgium

16. Volunteer

Although volunteering has become a bit of an industry in the last decade, it is a good way to give something back to society or to support a cause that you are passionate about.

You will meet locals as well as fellow travellers through shared interests. Due to the longer duration of time spent together, these contacts may transform into lasting friendships. As you are likely to be working in a local community, it will feel like a more authentic travel experience.

Some years ago, I volunteered at two kibbutzim in Israel over a six-month period. This gave me a broad perspective on a troubled country and overcoming the challenges associated with that experience helped form who I am today.

17. Bring photos from home

With most of our lives now stored on our mobile phones, this is so easy to do.

Sharing photos of home and family is a fantastic way to engage with people you meet travelling. Over the years, I have found this to be great for making a connection.

Just don’t bore the pants off them!

18. Pack a deck of cards

I have found card games to be a  great way to make friends when travelling alone.

On a group tour of Jordan in 2005, we spent most evenings engaged in mildly competitive card games. In a Jerusalem hostel,  I learnt how to play poker very badly (I don’t really have a poker face!).

Card games are great for long train journeys and can transcend language barriers. And if you are alone there’s always Solitaire.

person holding 4 aces

19. Have some business cards handy

Not strictly essential but very useful if you decide to share your contact details with other travellers that you meet.

20. Carry pen and paper at all times

Failing to have a business card handy, you can always scribble your details on a piece of paper. Where there are language barriers, expressing yourself through writing can often work wonders.

21. Learn some of the local lingo

I am lucky in that I am a native English speaker and English is relatively widely spoken throughout the world. But I am not so arrogant to assume that everyone I come across whilst travelling will speak English.

It is often possible to get by with English and occasional, creative sign language – cue, my chicken impression in a restaurant in Hangzhou! – but learning the basics in the host language can go a long way.

In my experience, people in most places appreciate you making the effort. And if you can sustain a basic conversation in this language, it will allow you to connect with people outside the circle of English-speaking travellers.

I am a huge fan of the Duolingo app. This offers 33 language courses for English speakers from Korean to Klingon. It’s fun and it’s free.

Thank you for reading my ways to meet people as a solo traveller

I hope these tips will help you as much as they have helped me. Just because you are a solo traveller, this doesn’t mean you have to be alone.

One of the greatest things about travelling alone is that you can be completely flexible and have just yourself to please. Inevitably, you will meet people who might suggest doing something that doesn’t feature in your guidebook and isn’t on your radar. As long as it is safe to do so, and if you connect with that person, why not join them?

Often great things can happen if you throw caution to the wind. But always remember that your personal safety is paramount.

Most people you meet will be decent and would not harm a hair on your head. But equally, there will be a few individuals whose motives may not be so pure.

Trust your gut. If someone feels off, walk away and don’t feel bad about doing so. When you arrange to meet with someone you don’t know well, make sure that this is during daylight hours.

If you are looking for inspiration and information about solo travel destinations, take a look at some of my other articles:

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About Bridget

Bridget Coleman has been a passionate traveller for more than 30 years. She has visited 70+ countries, most as a solo traveller.

Articles on this site reflect her first-hand experiences.

To get in touch, email her at hello@theflashpacker.net or follow her on social media.

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